IN NEED OF SERIOUS ADVICE (GOING CRAZY)
Hey guys whats going on? I have a problem that i need help with well its not really a problem but i havent talked to a certain someone well ok my boyfriend in about 5 days and im getting worried about him and honestly i dont know whats going on and i have been kind of crying hear lately because i dont know if hes ok or not but if you have any advice at all please get back to me or leave a comment on this blog i mean i emailed him telling him to call me or email me to tell me hes ok or something so i can stop worrying because i am the type of person that worries about people so yeah but really at this point dont know what to do. but anyway, i am asking you to please in some sort give me advice in knowing what should i do. but anyway please give me some type of advice and please pray for him.
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Permalink Reply by Jennifer Green on -
Please give advice i really need it
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Permalink Reply by Nicholas Martin on -
well, I'd love to help, however, it's hard to give advice to something like this to someone I know nothing about. I'd need to know how long you have known each other, how long you've been dating, what has been happening in your relationship as well as both your personal lives,. etc. It's probably a lot more information than you should be advertizing on a site like this. You can be assured that every dedicated follower will be praying for you both.
just a note though. If this is a very new relationship, I've had this happen to me before. You can wait it out unless you are suspicious of something that might become serious. You must know friends of his or someone who knows him as well. Try talking to them and if anything, they could at least let you know if he's alright.
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Permalink Reply by nicholas kropelnicki on -
If he lives with you: call the local jails around, see if he's detained. if there's no hits, call some medical centers & see if he's in there.
If he doesn't live with you: He's possibly lost interest & moved on, especially true if this has been a downward slope of no-contact.
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Permalink Reply by Dan on -
I suggest you visit him or check with his relatives or friends. Or if you know someone who lives near him then maybe ask them if they could check on him for you. If the fact that he's not emailing or calling you is completely out of character for him it would be a good idea. If he's done this in the past then it might not be anything major but it's always good to check. If he's in the military then the situation is a little different. Sometimes in times of war military men can't contact their families for months at a time. It's just comes with the job. Whatever the case, we'll pray for him.
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Permalink Reply by Chris and Lily Stevenson on -
Hi Jennifer,
I am a maried for 7 years now and I am 38 years old, I have a lot of experience with relationships prior to my mariage, it was a hard time because I was not really into dating, I was always looking for the right girl to mary. So now you know a little about me.. my prayers where always to find the right person for me, the person God intended for both of us and I kept praying and I found her halfway around the world in Beijing China, her name is Lily, we met on the internet.
So my advice for you is to be VERY picky with who you relate with not just your boy friends relationships but ALL relationships. I am not sure how serious you both are however from what you have written you are serious so the questions is, how serious is he. OK now to my point. THERE IS NO SECRET to how somone feels about you... really it is plan and simple and it is always between you and that person, now you need to get God involved and ask is this relationship a Godly one? Does this person hold the same Christian values as I do?
It sounds like he is avoiding you, that is clear, so would do as you said and pray and wait and see what he does next, the ball is in his court since you did say you tried to contact him, respect yourself and just wait and pray.
Again I am serious about relationships and so should everyone who is Christian be as well. Be equally Yoked
Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? 2 Corinthians 6:14 (New International Version)
God Bless,
Chris Stevenson
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