Alone...
it sux when you have no one to love, or be loved by... many come and many go in this world we live in. love is something i'll never understand... heartache and emptiness is all u feel... i learn to love then my heart is ripped in two. no one will ever love this mortal.man. i know i'm love by some... and christ loves me but i mean by that someone... why do all the nice guys like myself tend to finish last... but all the total jerks get the girls... and those girls always say they want a man to listen be honest love them for them but when i look nothing... well here i am... the one that can sweep you off your feet should you let me... should you give me that chance... to get to knoe you... you won't refret it. i;m a hopeless romantic and gonna be alone for my b-day and valentines day... well i see my poetic... side wants to come forth so i;m gonna go before i bore you all. take care and see if any replu to this... which i doubt... good night all...
Mark
Mark
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Permalink Reply by Alma Galvan on -
hey dude it goes both ways!! not all girls are like that, and if u haven't gotten the girl of ur dreams then ur not ready for her, God will bring her to u when He knows ur ready!!! Don't sweat, while ur waiting let ur love for God grow even more!!! GB!!
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Permalink Reply by ogunbamowo adetola owen on -
I love the reply of Alma Galvan. The love for God must come first for people who truly love Him and He as the finisher of our faith will perfect all that concerns one without stress. He can give the best of all things to His children but first you have to do it right by giving your love to Him first
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Permalink Reply by Janus on -
What can I say. We both have something in common. You have to remember that the nice guys tend to get someone better in life. All you have to do is pray to the lord and someone will always tell you "I love you" I had heartbreaks in the past, but I realize that those people are looking for guys for the wrong reason. It just takes time for a girl to notice you, and believe me, it takes time before you sweep them off their feet.
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Permalink Reply by Art Fontaine on -
It happens man but many of those people aren't happy. It is hard but you need to know that God has someone for you and when you are in the right place you will meet her. Your amount of posts on the subject relating to loneliness seem like you don't truly understand you identity in Christ and you need to really understand how much God loves you and wants you to succeed. Stay focused on your relationship with Him and all the other stuff will fall into place.
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Permalink Reply by maggie on
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I agree with Alma. Gods timing is the perfect timing! and if He has someone for us why should we settle for someone else!!! work on your relationship with Jesus, let Him grow you into the man of God you need to be for the woman of God that God is growing into the one for you. Quit looking and serve Jesus, find a ministry that gets your mind off the me focus and onto Christ's kingdom. believe me i know what i am talking about. It is very eary to get self focused and sad about what you don't have. So instead continually show Christ how grateful you are for all He already has given you. Get in His Word every day and listen to Christian music every time the ME monster rears its augly head. Trust God for everything!!! believe me you are not alone!!!! God bless
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Permalink Reply by Laura on -
Finding the right person for you can be a long and difficult road. For me, God had to teach me many lessons before I was ready to meet my David. I thought that I was ready for that great, once in a lifetime love, but I was wrong. I had so much to learn. Once I finally stopped looking for someone and looked into myself and to God, the right man walked into my life. Unfortunately God often has plans for us that do not follow the timeline that we would like. Perhaps the woman you are meant to be with still has lessons to learn before she is ready to meet you. Trust in God. It is difficult sometimes, I know, but he is with you and he has a plan.
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Permalink Reply by Josh on -
I've wondered the same things at many different times in my life, but then I finally realised that it just wasn't what God had in mind for me. Relationships can lead you away from the Lord. I've seen many people put a great deal of love into a relationship, and then they are crushed when things don't work out. They've built up expectations that only lead to dissappointment. I suggest using your time as a single guy searching the scripture.. I mean actually reading and asking for understanding from the Holy Spirit while you are reading. I promise you that if you put your fate into God's hands and ask to be led in his will, then you will never feel lonely, because you will truely be with him. I promise you will feel his love, just keep searching for it.
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Permalink Reply by nicholas kropelnicki on -
dude! you're single! go live it up! lol.. but seriously? don't get involved with women. they can be con artists, and will rip you of everything you have..(funny how i say this and i have a g/f?)
99.9 percent of gals out there, go for the big guys, because of how they look when they're around them.. but get hurt in the end.. leaving it more difficult for you to find something, or someone.
Here's what you need to do. quit being so soft... women CLAIM to love softies, but only a certain extent.. every once in a while, they want some "bad boy" to peek out every once in a while. it makes them feel secure for some odd reason. be jealous, but not controlling. alot of girls don't know this, but the man they seek is usually one that personality resembles their father. because they know that's what protects them.
one more tip. don't go for the easy gals. i don't mean just "wam-bam" but i mean vulnerable, insecure, in the middle of crisis easy.. they fall into your arms like putty, but building them up to human level again is like nailing jello to a tree.
but until your window of opportunity comes up, go clubbin or somethin. get loose!
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Permalink Reply by d(heavenbound) on -
josh...
what a great piece of input, bro...i don't know how many times i've tried to explain this to guys or girls that are so desperate and looking for someone to fulfill their needs, yet wondering why their relationship with Him is suffering...
to hear you say that, honestly, makes me feel so good to know that there are other brothers out there that realize and believe the same in that..ok, this is my feeling..if the Lord decides to bless me with a woman in my life, then that's great..i'm all for it. and if He doesn't, even better, because it gives me that much more time and my undivided attention to be able to devote to the relationship that i have with Him..
two scriptures come to mind, if i can share them here...
1 Corinthians 7:9 If, however, they cannot maintain self-control, by all means let them marry; for marriage is better than the fever of passion.
1 Corinthians 7:1 I now deal with the subjects mentioned in your letter. It is well for a man to abstain altogether from marriage.
thanks for letting me share..
God bless...
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Permalink Reply by Jennifer Green on -
Listen being single could suck God would give someone who think is right for you. But dont rush yourself to get a girlfriend because if you rush to get a girlfriend what if she not type that you wanted think about it?
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