Dont know what to do
I just want to say sorry i just need to as much as possible because if i go to my mother she's not going to understand and i dont have my sister here in the US to talk to her she's in London and the time is different. its about a 5 hour difference between here and London. i have another sister but she's not going to get it and my father well i dont wanna talk to him. My brothers I dont wanna talk to them either maybe because they raised me to defend for my self pretty much. i always thought i was a pretty strong person until now. and the other reason why I cant talk to my brothers is because i'm scared into what they might do or say. I dont know what to do as far as my boyfriend is concern i call and call and call again but i dont get no answer and i am so sick of my heart hurting right now part of me wants to breakup with him but the other part loves him to much to do anything. maybe i should just leave it alone and see what happens but i dont want nothing to happen to him. but im so sick of him not answering his phone when i call. i think that te situation between me and my boyfriend started when i told him that i had a infection. nothing to serious nothing that antibotics cant cure. but anyway with out giving u the whole story can u give me some advice please what should i do.
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Permalink Reply by lampwickke on -
Dear Jennifer,
It might be wise thing to let him be for a short while,at least until he gets over the initial shock of what you have told him? It is more or less a test of sorts.Love is a precarious state to be in,
and possibly new to your boyfriend.What you allude to is also a warning shot within your life.I intensly dislike giving advice with even with the whole picture spelled out.It is also putting those who would help you at a great disadvantage.Options are what I prefer to give others.You,can give him some space, see where it goes.Confront him in person,and verbally. see where his head is at. tell him of your hurting heart? and lastly drop him,for if he won't stick with you during the times you need him ,of what does your relationship consist of?
In this world,in relationships today more important is your relationship with your God first,then others.Follow this rule,and you won't be to wounded to speak to those who love you when you get into trouble.They would understand,when all is said and done.Because Love overcomes all! In His love,
lampwickke xxx
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Permalink Reply by Dan on -
If it's been over a month since he's returned your calls then he probably don't want you back. You need to face the facts sometimes and move on. God does things for a reason. Maybe you'll be better off without him if you don't patch things up. It could be that God has someone better for you out there. Don't wait for him forever, life's too short to be sad and miserable all the time.
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Permalink Reply by Art Fontaine on -
Just remember that if one door closes another will open, if it has been more than a month it is safe to assume he is done with you, especially if you gave him something. Just pray for God to put the person for you in your life, pray that you will find that #1, the 1 for you who understands you and loves you unconditionally. Aparently your boyfriend is hurt or was hurt by what you told him. The initial shock is over so now it is time to pick up the pieces. Call him from a different phone # and then if he picks up get closure on the whole situation and move on...if he wont pick up then still move on. We need to keep our eyes on God and this clearly has got you taking your eyes off the prize. Times like these hurt and that is when we need to draw closer to God the most. He has the perfect person for you somewhere and when it is time you will meet, just don't settle for less and don't jump into something just cuz you are lonely...
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